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love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps its unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20 of all. Christians generally believe that sex is to be enjoyed in marriage between a man and a woman. but they are always his bride, and he is always determined to woo them back. Marriage, and the sexuality contained therein, is a symbol of this great wedding. It is a place of giving and of union, rather than taking and self-directed pleasure. Masturbation and married people it is not unusual for men and women to masturbate in addition to regular sex with their partners. The most frequent qualm wives have about masturbation is knowing that their husband still masturbates despite regular sexual relationships together. Since masturbation is not inherently sinful, there must be situations in marriage where it is allowed. There also seem to be some situations where it is the only wise choice for some individuals. But we cannot ignore our spouse and just masturbate whenever we desire its their sexuality too and they have a say in when and how it is used. Is masturbation in marriage always wrong, then? Not necessarily, as ive written about before. If both know what each other is doing, if you do it together, if secrecy isnt part of it, it can be a part of play (as long as it does not replace sex). But if a spouse is masturbating in order to lead a secret life if a spouse is masturbating to get sexual release instead of doing the necessary. Masturbation in marriage hebrews 134 teaches us that there is great freedom in marriage for different types of sexual activity as long as it occurs between a husband and wife. Every sexually active husband or wife knows that sexual activity between a husband and wife involves stimulation of one anothers genitals by physical contact until. Men and women appear to approach the issue of masturbation and marriage differently, and it has been suggested that men use masturbation in compensatory ways, and women use it in complementary ways. The bible never directly addresses it, and christian leaders have different opinions about its spiritual and moral implications. For our part, we dont think theres much use in labeling the act of masturbation itself as sin. The fact is that many christian women masturbate and feel horribly guilty about it. Ive met women who feel more shame about masturbation than they do about having an adulterous affair. Yet the bible is silent on the issue of masturbation and says a whole lot about adultery.